Cursed Words

I was listening to the radio a few days ago and realized a few seconds after hearing it that the station had not bleeped out the “f” word in the song.

I’m not sure if that was unintentional (seems hard to miss) or if the laws regarding swearing in song lyrics on public stations have changed, but it did get me thinking.

My generation is significantly less sensitized to such words than the generation before me.  I read multiple instances of every imaginable variation of “fuck” in blocks every day and just sort of pass over it without even noticing.  And I’m very aware that younger generations are more and more exposed to that kind of language, as I find myself shocked to overhear young children using words that my mother would have slapped me silly for.

So it appears that the verbage we were instructed never, never to let pass our lips on pain of death and sure passage to hell is becoming less and less offensive to each generation.

And what makes a word “offensive” anyway?  It’s certainly not the meaning.  I can talk about poop to any mommy on the block, but refrain from using the word “shit” in most company.

It’s not the usage of the word that makes it offensive.  Nobody bats an eye when a four year old yells “Oh fiddlesticks!” (that’s a southern phrase, for you who are wondering what nonsense I just typed). But that same child would have his mouth washed out by substituting a shorter word.

So what is it that gives curse words their significance?  I guess it’s nothing more than the culture.  I generally refrain from using the words, not because I think the devil will claim my soul should I utter one, but out of respect for those around me who might still be offended by them.

But as previously mentioned, the culture is changing.  Which leads me to wonder if we will eventually have a society in which there are no “forbidden” words…or will some numnuts start making up new words and labeling them as profane?  Who knows.  Personally, I hope for the former.  I think it would be an improvement if everybody could use all the words they wanted to without being considered offensive.

I’m speaking strictly of curse words here.  I know there will always be ways to make vocabulary offensive in tone and context, but I’m just speaking of words that are offensive because they are words.

But I do hope for a world without profanity because really, I think that the whole idea of “no-no” words is kind of stupid.

One Response to “Cursed Words”

  1. Tim Says:

    My wife and I freely let the language of any sort fly at home when we’re alone, but generally refrain from the more socially unacceptable words when around others.

    The “f-word” you were referring to is actually from a monk’s writings in the 10th century while writing “worldy” knowledge, or, “(F)or (u)nlawful (c)arnal (k)nowledge.

    If you study the bible a bit, you will actually find the words shit and piss. Yet, we as a society still consider these words offensive, no matter the context they’re used in. Hmm . . . it just goes to show what groupped opinion and superstition can do to not just one society, but globally.

    Humans . . .